Tuesday, March 18, 2008

just random stuff...

Humm… had a whole bunch of things that I was thinking about posting about but, alas… my mind had gone blank. Haha! So I will just say a belated Happy St Patrick’s Day to all, and a belated Happy Birthday to my not-so-Irish Askie, too!


I hope everyone did something fun for St Patty’s Day, and ate or drank something green! I didn’t eat or drink anything green, but for some reason I seem to think that all of you should have. Haha!


Troy and I went out to dinner with some friends and had a wonderful time! Going out to eat isn’t helping with my quest for the perfect dress… since if I found one, it wouldn’t fit anyway. Haha! But, I think spending a nice evening with friends is more important than stressing about the few extra pounds that I want to shed so… dinner and fun times were had! J I was at least behaved enough to skip the French fries and dessert. Haha!


For all those that are wondering (which I am sure is none of you because you are all sick of me talking about it… haha! But I am updating you anyway), the party and auction really seem to be coming together well for the 29th.Which makes me very happy! This fund-raiser goes towards providing RWDC’s amazing dance education programs for underprivileged kids in the Salt Lake area, and the programs really are great! The auction will contain items from cosmetics gift baskets, to jewelry, to artwork, to sports packages, to chocolate, to gift cards for restaurants, to tickets to a variety of events, to a weekend getaway on Southwest, to a weekend at a working ranch, and all the way up to a grand piano! It should be a very fun evening and I am very much looking forward to it! And frankly, I am very much looking forward to it being done as well… so that I can have my spare brain power back for other things. Haha!!


Anyway… we are off to a birthday party and then hopefully the gym! My office is shut this Friday, and I am looking forward to a 3-day weekend full of lots of play time!! Yeah!! So happy early Good Friday to all of you!


P.S. During my research for my “talk” next week, I came across this poem that I just love, so I thought I would share…


Her hair was up in a pony tail, her favorite dress tied with a bow.
Today was Daddy's Day at school, and she couldn't wait to go.
But her mommy tried to tell her, that she probably should stay home.
Why the kids might not understand, if she went to school alone.
But she was not afraid; she knew just what to say.

What to tell her classmates of why he wasn't there today.
But still her mother worried, for her to face this day alone.
And that was why once again, she tried to keep her daughter home.
But the little girl went to school eager to tell them all.
About a dad she never sees; a dad who never calls.
There were daddies along the wall in back, for everyone to meet.
Children squirming impatiently, anxious in their seats
One by one the teacher called a student from the class.

To introduce their daddy, as seconds slowly passed.
At last the teacher called her name, every child turned to stare.
Each of them was searching, for a man who wasn't there.
"Where's her daddy at?" she heard a boy call out.
"She probably doesn't have one," another student dared to shout.
And from somewhere near the back, she heard a daddy say,
Looks like another deadbeat dad, too busy to waste his day.
The words did not offend her, as she smiled up at her Mom.
And looked back at her teacher, who told her to go on.
And with hands behind her back, slowly she began to speak.
And out from the mouth of a child, came words incredibly unique.
My Daddy couldn't be here, because he lives so far away.
But I know he wishes he could be, since this is such a special day.
And though you cannot meet him, I wanted you to know.
All about my daddy, and how much he loves me so.
He loved to tell me stories he taught me to ride my bike.
He surprised me with pink roses, and taught me to fly a kite.
We used to share fudge sundaes, and ice cream in a cone.
And though you cannot see him, I'm not standing here alone.
Cause my daddy's always with me, even though we are apart
I know because he told me, he'll forever be in my heart"
With that, her little hand reached up, and lay across her chest.
Feeling her own heartbeat, beneath her favorite dress.

And from somewhere here in the crowd of dads, her mother stood in tears.
Proudly watching her daughter, who was wise beyond her years.
For she stood up for the love of a man not in her life.
Doing what was best for her, doing what was right.
And when she dropped her hand back down, staring straight into the crowd.
She finished with a voice so soft, but its message clear and loud.
I love my daddy very much, he's my shining star.
And if he could, he'd be here, but heaven's just too far.
You see he was a firefighter and died just this past year
When airplanes hit the towers and taught Americans to fear.
But sometimes when I close my eyes, it's like he never went away."
And then she closed her eyes, and she saw him there that day.
And to her mothers amazement, she witnessed with surprise
A room full of daddies and children, all starting to close their eyes.
Who knows what they saw before them, who knows what they felt inside.
Perhaps for merely a second, they saw him at her side.
I know you're with me Daddy, to the silence she called out.
And what happened next made believers, of those once filled with doubt.
Not one in that room could explain it, for each of their eyes had been closed.
But there on the desk beside her, was a fragrant long-stemmed pink rose.
And a child was blessed, if only for a moment, by the love of her shining star.
And given the gift of believing, that heaven is never too far.

They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them,
a day to love them, but then an entire life to forget them.

- author unknown

1 comment:

ede said...

That is a lovely poem
thanks or sharing